Many women asking me the same question... what do we do after a breakup? You know, in that awkward phase when you miss what you've become accustom to, like: long conversations, quality time, quiet time alone, someone to laugh with and for you to say "I love you" to and they reciprocate. Here's my advice: pray, own your feelings, let it out (cry if need be), release them in LOVE and TRUST GOD for the mending of your hearts and for better times to come. TIME heals all wounds... TIME, not ANOTHER man. Another man will only confuse the situation and your feelings.
True WHOLENESS comes when you are able to honestly assess your feelings. Realness precedes WHOLENESS, and WHOLENESS precedes BLESSEDNESS! God will bless you with what and who you deserve when you are whole and ready. Remember, our Father loves that person or "type of person" you are praying for just as much as HE loves you and HE will never give them to you if you're not ready because YOU will abuse HIS GIFT and this "gift" is also His child. So, heal and deal with yourself first. Write in a journal, start a blog, focus on your career, children, fitness or any other positive activity. Become a better you by being proactive in your complete development and you will walk into a better season without even realizing it.
This journey will be like any other... one step at a time but in the end. YOU WILL REACH YOUR DESTINATION ~ a whole woman ready to receive a whole man... two that can become one flesh and compliment one another in the most fulfilling way.
God bless you and Happy Healing!!!
Love ya,
~dp
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